Ive been saving for a house but I'm hesitant on buying because the market seems inflated in the North Jersey/NYC Metro area. A shitty little 2 or 3 bedroom house goes for minimum 300k. I don't see that being sustainable considering everyone in their 20s to early 30s is saddled with tens of thousands of student loan debt
This is a non sarcastic, serious response.
A couple of things here I think over ride the frothy market. I have owned a home for 20 years and currently renting. I have seen the hills and valley's in the market in that time.
1.) Rates are at a historic low. If you have good credit, you can get a very low rate. A rate that is about as low as you could have received in the last 40-50 years. This will save you tens of thousands in interest payments. I am not sure how long rates will stay this low and it really doesn't matter. You can get a 15 or 30 year fixed rate mortgage. All things equal it's better for you to pay a little more for the price of a house and much less on the interest.
2.) As long as you buy a house you can afford, with payments you can afford, and get lowest term for your mortgage you can afford, it doesn't matter how much you pay for your house. The daily, weekly, monthly and yearly fluctuations in the market are just noise. You just keep making the mortgage payments and eventually your principal will start going up and up and up. Certainly, some years will make your house purchase seem like a good investment and other years not so much. However, after 10-15-20-30 years however long the mortgage is for, after an appreciable amount of time, you will have a good deal of equity.
3.) The deductions and write offs will be substantial enough to really make up for the price of the house even if it was a little bit higher than you would have liked to pay. For instance, from 2011-2015 I was getting back a substantial amount on my taxes in part because I was writing off the interest and the taxes on my house. You can not do that as a renter.
Again, it all depends on what you can afford. If interest rates climb substantially there will be some carnage in the real estate market to be sure. I don't think it will be nearly as bad as what happened in 2007-08, where the market collapsed by at least 50% and in many area's way way worse. However, you will be paying a ton more in interest and the banks would be happier lending to you because they're going to make a bundle on your mortgage.
So it's a catch 22, buy now with much lower rates or buy later and pay higher interest. There are good deals out there, you just have to find them. When you do find them don't be concerned with the day to day pricing of real estate, unless of course you're strictly doing it for the investment. If that's the case then it's a completely different conversation.
edit: I don't think there's a danger of interest rates climbing substantially. They will probably climb slow and steady if at all. I don't think the economy both here and abroad is all that great right now. So we have a period of time that's more or less price stable. At least I don't see any catalysts other than a terrorist attack or something stupid perpetrated by N. Korea. That's stuff way beyond anyone's capacity for prediction.