So, after years of working on the wife, and then kids doing the same, especially my daughter, it looks like we will have a dog in the house by New Years. It won't be the 60lb version I was looking for- instead a sub 15-lb Havanese, which by all accounts are awesome family pets, super intelligent and obedient. Instead of going to puppy route, we are looking to rehome a 3 year old dog, presently with a breeder. These dogs have a lifespan of 16 years so I'm really not worried about longevity. To be continued.